You can manage who can send you messages on Fansly by setting DM permissions. This gives you control over your message interactions so you only hear from users you want to engage with.
How to Set DM Permissions
Go to your Creator Dashboard and select Messages, or go straight to fansly.com/creator/chat.
Open the DM Permissions tab.
Under To message you, fans must, tick what fans need to do before they can message you:
Follow you
Subscribe
Pay per message: fans pay a set amount for each message they send.
Have tipped you: fans must have tipped you at least a set amount.
Followed by you: only people you follow can message you.
Have bought media worth: fans must have bought at least a set amount of your media.
Check Fans will see to confirm your setup.
You can tick more than one option, and fans must meet all of them. Want to give fans a choice, like subscribing or paying per message? Click Advanced and use + Add another way in.
In Advanced, you can also limit messages to fans on your private list. Click + and also and choose On your private list.
💡 Pro Tip
Use DM permissions to tailor your fan interactions. Setting limits helps maintain privacy and ensures messages come from genuine supporters.

